It also goes back to that point I mentioned in the last paragraph about them fearing their inexperience being outed. One problem that can plague shyer guys is that sometimes their nervousness doesn’t appear when they first meet a woman, but comes back to bite them soon after. Initially they manage to come off as calm and charming and make a good impression, but then fall apart when the stakes get higher.

Realize that in dating a much younger man, you won’t share many cultural references. A man four years younger than you, sure, will get much of the same things you do, but one around 10 years younger probably won’t. Mumsnet’s better when you’re logged in. You can customise your experience and access way more features like messaging, watch and hide threads, voting and much more. Donyourway – If i was 30 and still a virgin i’d hire a prostitute for a night. If i was 30 and still a virgin i’d hire a prostitute for a night.

A partner I had said to me, after we had done the deed, ‘how would you feel if I said I had never done that before ? ‘ I replied, ‘I would be surprised as you are a good lover’ was my reply. You’re panicking because you haven’t had sex and ‘everyone’ else has. A lot of people end up in relationships because the thought of not being in one bothers them.

Hi I am 66 and was just wondering if it would be ok. I lost my husband of 34 yrs in July and my mother recently. I am very attracted to the Funeral Director who is 53. He gave me some signs and told me we”ll be in touch.

If you’ve already gone on some dates, ask him if he’d like to go out again. If he hasn’t talked to you yet, start a conversation. It may go well or go nowhere, but if he seems interested, but shy and hard to read, then ask him out. His response still won’t necessarily reveal his motivations , but at least you’ll be able to move forward.

Remember that it’s about the two of you as individuals, not your age difference.

Deep down, The Guy Who Has Just Fully Quit At This Point is pretty frightened about a lot of things, but his fear manifests itself in indifferent denial, and passivity usually prevails. There is only one way that things change for The Guy Who Has Just Fully Quit At This Point, and that’s to find himself squarely in the sights of The Girl Who Relentlessly Pursues. Until then, the whole thing isn’t really his issue. Yeah I mean it’s kind of weird for a guy to be a virgin at that age, but I didn’t think that many women would be so shallow about it. I don’t see how women can say they don’t think it’s fair for them to be judged for their sexual history, when obviously, a high percentage of women are judging men for theirs.


Your sexual market value is near lot value – don’t you want to grow old with someone kind and interesting? Is being cat-lady and Netflix a better outcome at 70? No forethought, no critical thinking – just the “here and now”.

It’s time for your boyfriend to cut the apron strings and start living his life by his beliefs, not his parents’. I actually have a family friend who is still a virgin at 36 and that’s where this question comes from. He was born into a religious home and had low self-esteem when younger but is trying to break out of his shell now. So he doesn’t know who Cardi B is, and you don’t have the same points of nostalgia—that might not bug you at all, and that’s just great. But what if you start talking politics and trends, only to discover he’s completely immovable in his views?

I would not rule out getting to know a 40-year-old virgin but if our relationship were to go beyond casual friendship, I would expect her not to remain a virgin. I wouldn’t enter into a sexless romantic relationship. Shrug, I’m a 46yo not very experienced woman… at least this particular cradle snatch wouldn’t come with an ex-wife and 2.5 weekend children, that would be more of a problem and at our ages it’s much more likely.

Your standards will get higher and your priorities will shift as things like “tall, dark and handsome” just don’t make the cut for long-term success. Once upon a time , I was 21 years old, fresh out of a relationship and enjoying all the aspects of single-hood with my other single friends. Don’t accidentally fall in love with the first person you have sex with because PinaLove those relationships are doomed. I’m 21M and a virgin as well and it has never bothered me. I’m quite thick skinned so any mention of it or insults from whoever pass through me like nothin’ and so I never was really bothered about it. Two of my good friends aren’t virgins and they brag about it once or twice, and I’m like “Well, ok..Good for you I guess?”.

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It can be hard to gauge how emotionally mature a younger man is right away, so certainly give this guy a shot. But look for signs that he’s not where you are emotionally, and leave before you get in deeper. If you’re coming into your sexual peak at whatever age you are, you are probably finding that men your age aren’t as eager to hop in bed quite as often as you are, which can leave you wanting more. OP – virginity wouldn’t bother me at all. Any woman you meet who would judge you on that is not the right one anyway I’d say.